Reflection + Resolution


The dust has now settled on the whirlwind that was Christmas and we find ourselves standing here in a brand new year. A blank slate to make the next 365 days into whatever we want. It's quite an exciting thought. In the past I've made lists of too many goals (which were rarely met) but this year I knew instantly what changes I wanted to make for myself.

Last year my life changed a lot. It was quite a quiet year on the blog front, I'm such a closed person and I hate criticism so making big changes in my life, while they've been, without a doubt, amazing and positive for me, I have taken a step back from sharing too much because I wanted to feel 100% comfortable and confident with everything.

I don't often give myself credit, I focus on the things I didn't do a lot, instead of the things I did do, so it's fun when I give myself a moment to reflect and I see that I actually achieved so much in my personal life this year that I've been wanting to achieve for years.


In May this year I went vegan, something I've been working towards for about 3 years. My skin has never been better and my long battle with depression came to an end. There are hundreds of reasons why I'm in love with veganism but I would have done it for those two reasons alone. In addition to that, Orlaith started her vegan journey in September this year. I'm honestly so proud of her, she's handled it so well and has been so mature about the changes and embracing all her new food choices. It's been such a positive experience so far.

This year I started embracing minimalism and it's changed my life completely. In fact, I read through some old posts of mine the other day and I constantly talked about dealing with clutter and excess. I've finally actually dealt with it. My home has never looked better (it does still get messy, but that's life) and it allows me to focus on things that are really important instead of wasting time of pointless things without much purpose. I'm not 100% done but I'd say I've let go of around 70% of our belongings so far.

Other Changes
I always resolve to generate and save more money, and I put a travel ban on myself in 2015 so I could focus on saving. And I finally actually achieved that. OK, I chose to spend the money in the end (haha) but it was on something I deliberated over for a (very) long time and I don't regret my decision at all.  I've made some other big, more personal, changes this year (like getting braces and finally straightening my teeth) which I couldn't be more pleased about.

I think this year has been a lot about living in the now instead of resolving to do things in the future. Because all we really have is the present moment. In reflection it also seems to me like I've been trying to cleanse myself, perhaps to wipe the slate clean in a way. I'm realising that there's a certain way I'd like to live  my life and I can see myself working towards that.


So carrying on with the 'cleansing myself' theme I've decided that in 2016 I'm going to stop drinking. The goal is to go without alcohol for a year, and from there decide on the next step. I'm approaching it the same way I approached going vegan, without any pressure on myself. If I have a drink at some point in 2016 I won't kick myself for it, I'll just accept that I had a drink and carry on with my sobriety from there. What's the reason I want to stop drinking? There are lots, but in a nutshell drinking alcohol has been having a negative affect on my body and my mind recently. I don't drink a lot at all, but even small amounts of alcohol have been affecting me in big ways and it feels quite toxic right now. So I'm saying goodbye to the booze... for now.

The other thing I'd like to really buckle down to this year is getting my art business up and running. This has probably been a resolution for so many past years. But really, the lack of progression in this area is ridiculous. I need to have more faith in myself because I can do this. After cleansing my home of all the superfluous junk that allowed me to procrastinate so much before, and after showing myself that I can achieve things I perceive as being difficult, I think this year will be the perfect year to make progress in this area.

Have you made resolutions for 2016? If so, I'd love to hear them!

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  1. Congrats on you and Orlaith becoming vegans. I think that's awesome and I have to say, your list of resolutions are the best I've heard yet. I like that they're goals that are attainable and within your reach. Believe it or not, I haven't made any resolutions for the new year, because I almost always break them, but your list is making me rethink that. Thanks for the inspiration... :)

    1. My problem in the past has been to either make too many resolutions or to make none. I think sticking with one really achievable resolution is good for the soul. Especially if it's something that focuses on us, because I think we all feel too busy to spend time just focusing on ourselves these days :)

  2. I love how you mention 'cleansing' yourself in life - veganism, cutting out alcohol etc. I can't think of a better New Year's goal to have. Congrats on all you've achieved so far and good luck in 2016! :)

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  3. i'm so glad for you that your depression got over!

  4. It sounds like a wonderful 2015 for you, and your resolutions for 2016 are wonderful too. I hope you achieve all your goals this year - you did so well last year you're sure to do so again this year :)

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  5. I'm pleased you focused on the positive, well done on maintaining the vegan not easy and amazed that your little one has made such an easy transition, which is brilliant. You definitely need to do more of your art as you are so talented Lucy x

  6. Good luck with 2016 Alexandra, and I hope you're able to make progress with your art. I've been interviewing artists lately for a local magazine and they are so inspirational. I hope you enjoy not drinking. I don't drink and it's lovely to never had that yicky feeling of having had a glass of wine the day before. Wishing you well with all of your plans for 2016. CJ xx

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